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January 4, 2012

Life-Changing Principles for 2012

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Core Theme:

I operate with honesty and integrity in all areas of my life, taking into consideration those I am in community with and all others around me who are affected and influenced by my actions or lack of actions; by my integrity or lack of integrity.

I take full responsibility for where I am, for where I find myself (my job, my home, my geographical location, my relationships, etc.).  I clarify what is important to me and write it down, I put a date next to anything that I want to accomplish – a trip, a new house, a new job, a change in relationship. 

I “clean up” and eliminate anything which is inconsistent with what I want to achieve.  I clean up the past – and free the present moment for creative energy. 

I create a vision for where I want to be, what I want to be doing, having and whom and what I am in relationship with.  I create a vivid picture, almost like a movie in which I see myself having all the things I choose, being exactly the way I wish to be, and feeling the exact way I wish to feel, and being in the exactly perfect relationships I choose. 

I go for my choices 100%.  I align and re-align myself to them every day. I am free to change them.

 

Core Principles:

  1. I decide/create what my life is, not anyone else. I set appropriate limits.
  2. I have complete power over my life. I have choices.
  3. I take responsibility for my life – for where and how I find myself.  I take responsibility for “who” I am “being.” I put myself in the “center” of my life. I must first have a good feeling about and relationship with myself. How I see and assess myself affects my ability to interact with and be in meaningful relationships with others on all levels.
  4. If I feel the need to “change” someone, “coach” someone, or “advise” someone I focus first on changing, coaching and advising myself.
  5. I spend my time with people who energize and support me. I limit my time with those who don’t.
  6. I listen to my gut! I don’t argue with it or ignore it.
  7. I forgive more, judge and criticize less.
  8. I give more “grace,” more often, freely with no strings attached.
  9. I build patterns and behaviors which focus and continue to refocus me on my goals and desires.
  10. I am focused and happy. I am free … I am me!

 

© 2012, Rhonda Robbins. All rights reserved.

© 2012, Embrace Your Brilliance. All rights reserved.

 

January 5, 2011

Life-Changing Principles for 2011

Life-Changing Principles for 2011
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Core Theme:

I operate with honesty and integrity in all areas of my life, taking into consideration those I am in community with and all others around me who are affected and influenced by my actions or lack of actions; by my integrity or lack of integrity.

Core Principles:

  • You are not my judge. God and history alone shall judge me.
  • I decide/create what my life is, not anyone else.
  • The only “power” you or anyone has “over” me, is power I give them – or – my willingness to submit to their requests.
  • I do not need anyone’s approval or acceptance to create a life that suits me. I may want acceptance or approval – but I realize NEED and WANT are completely separate things.
  • I have complete power over my life. I have choices.
  • I take responsibility for my life – for where and how I find myself. I take responsibility for “who” I am “being.”
  • I look amazing – I feel amazing. Dressing in an awesome way energizes me, frames me and sets the tone each day!
  • I spend lots of time with people who energize and support me. I limit my time with those who don’t.
  • I eat that which nourishes me.
  • I read that which feeds and challenges me; that which resonates with my spirit.
  • I learn to truly “listen.” PERIOD. I shut my mouth and listen first.
  • I speak less, listen more, smile often and am more accepting and less critical of others.
  • If I feel the need to “change” someone, “coach” someone, or “advise” someone I focus first on changing, coaching and advising myself.
  • I put myself in the “center” of my life. I must first have a good feeling about and relationship with myself. How I see and assess myself affects my ability to interact with and be in meaningful relationships with others on all levels.
  • I “test” my limits – make decisions outside of normal patterns for me, but based on gut instinct and intuition. I take risks. I step out in “faith.” I do not allow fear to “paralyze” me.
  • I listen to my gut! I don’t argue with it or ignore it.
  • I forgive more, judge and criticize less.
  • I “expect” nothing – or certainly much, much, much, much, much less from others. I do not attempt to hold anyone to my standards or ideals. I “let” them be who they are. I accept them for who they are.
  • I give more “grace,” more often, more freely with no strings attached.
  • I build patterns and behaviors which focus and continue to refocus me on my goals and desires.
  • I laugh more.
  • I love more.
  • I am more.
  • I am focused and happy.
  • I am free … I am me!

Ta DAH!

© 2011, Rhonda Robbins. All rights reserved.

October 14, 2010

Rhonda’s 2010 Personality Principles for Life

Personality Principles to Live By from Rhonda Robbins - Phoenix Life Coach
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Personality Principles to Live By from Rhonda Robbins - Phoenix Life CoachHaving an understanding of your personality type enables you to understand yourself and other better.

Below are my 2010 Principles based on Understanding Yourself and Others:

  • I am nothing like you –   you are nothing like me!!!!I accept that fact as a “reality.”  WYSIWYG  (what you see is what you get) – accepting WIS (what is so)
  • I do not attempt to change or control you. I accept you for who you are.  WYSIWYG (what you see is what you get) – accepting WIS (what is so)
  • I accept who you are and what is so, or I walk away!!!
  • I acknowledge I am not always going to get “answers,” “closure” or “understanding” of circumstances, people or events.  WYSIWYGacceptingWIS
  • I admit that there are times when I must accept “what is so,” give up my “need-to-understand,” or be “right” and simply “move on” for the sake of everyone involved.   I can be “right” or I can be in “relationship.”  I must decide which is most important to me.  WYSIWYGaccepting  WIS
  • Understanding my own personality “validates” and “frees” me to passionately be me, to make decisions centered on my well-being without guilt, fear, remorse or compulsion of others.
  • I omit the words “should,” “must” and “need to” from my vocabulary.  I decide what is right for me.  I decide my potential and path each day. Instead, I want, I choose, I decide
  • Understanding my personality weaknesses does not give me “license” act in my weaknesses to the detriment of others or myself.  That’s how I am, that’s it! (is deleted from my speech) I stop using it as an excuse to act out, act up and alienate others.
  • Understanding my personality weaknesses give me opportunity to work on strengthening my weakness, refining myself, my character and integrity.
  • Accepting the challenge to work on my weakness helps me to reach my full potential as a human being.
  • I live my life passionately, freely being who I was born to be.
  • I am happy being me. I love my life.  I love me.

 

© 2010 Rhonda Robbins, All right reserved.  10-14-2010 (rev. 12-12-2010)