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April 26, 2012

We Hear What We Want to Hear and Tell Ourselves What We Want to Believe

Life Coaching Phoenix: We hear what we want to hear - More importantly we create who we want to be

We are a funny people. We are wired to want to hear only good about ourselves. That wiring sometimes stops us from being in reality about what is so and creating what could be.

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Life Coaching Phoenix: We hear what we want to hear - More importantly we create who we want to be
I just received a joke in my email from a friend of mine. The joke goes like this:

A man’s wife had just bought a new line of expensive cosmetics guaranteed to make her look years younger.  She sat in front of the mirror, for what had to be hours, applying the “miracle” products.

Finally, when she was done, she turned to her husband and asked, “Darling, honestly now, what age would you say I am?”

He nodded his head in assessment, and carefully said, “Well, judging from your skin, twenty.

Your hair, eighteen.

Your figure, twenty-five.”

“Oh, you’re so sweet!” gushed the wife.

“Well, hang on,” he replied, “I’m not finished adding it up yet.”

We are a funny people. We are wired to want to hear only good about ourselves.  That wiring sometimes stops us from being in reality about what is so and creating what could be.

When we are not genuine with ourselves about who we are, who we are being and what we are “really” up to in life, we cannot create limitless possibilities, generate and manifest the success or abundance we are seeking.

Just as the woman in the joke with all the creams, she spent hours bathing herself in these creams in an attempt to cover or mask the reality of her age and physical condition.  So we, too, put up smokescreens and apply masks and blinders as to where we really are.

Only when we can breakthrough the self-emposed chains of our thoughts can we live into our limitless possibility.

What will it take for you to face yourself?  Will you need a guide, a confidant, a listener?

Step up, step into your life, grab it and run with passion toward your abundance.

 

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Rhonda Robbins, Success Strategies Coach, NLP Practitioner, Personality Trainer and Certified Life Coach is always available for one-on-one business or personal coaching sessions in person, on the phone, via Skype, Google Talk, Google Voice or Yahoo Video Call. You can email her at rhonda@embraceyourbrilliance.co or call/text to 480-343-8700.

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April 24, 2012

A Zipper Can Change Your Life, You Create Your Life With Your Thoughts

Gideon Sundback Changes the World with the Perfect Zipper - Life is like a box of thoughts

A Zipper Can Change Your Life, You Must Change Your Thoughts — Imagine that something as small as a zipper changed the world…Every thought creates something. Every action we take moves us toward something. We create our present. We create where we find ourselves. Let every piece of emotional and physical energy positively reflect your intention to [more]

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VIDEO:  Gideon Sundback is celebrated for perfecting the zipper today

A Zipper Can Change Your Life, You Must Change Your Thoughts

Imagine that something as small as a zipper changed the world, or the words of one rock n’ Gideon Sundback Changes the World with the Perfect Zipper - Life is like a box of thoughtsroll tune, or the prayers of one woman (Mother Teresa).  Today’s Google Doodle celebrates Gideon Sundback.  While Gideon did not “invent” the zipper, he improved the work of others by “perfecting” the zipper.

Sometimes our one single word speaks volumes of motivation and care that inspires others.  Other times we merely lay a foundation for someone else to perfect —  that later positively impacts our families, communities and world.

Whatever we find ourselves doing today, everything we do has meaning.  Every thought we have creates something. Every action we take moves us toward something.  We create our present.  We create where we find ourselves.  We create our possibilities.

Let every piece of emotional and physical energy positively reflect your intention to create purpose and meaning as you inspire not only yourself but others today.  Carpe Diem!

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Rhonda Robbins, speaker, teacher, certified life coach and NLP practitioner has been providing transformational life changing services and personality training to hundreds of individuals, businesses and groups for over ten years.  Rhonda owns and operates, Embrace Your Brilliance, and is available for one-on-one coaching sessions in person, on the phone, via Skype, Google Talk, Google+ Hangout or Yahoo Video Call. You can call me directly at 480-343-8700 or email me at yes@embraceyourbrilliance.co to set up a time for a session, or to ask a question.

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April 19, 2012

Dick Clark Died Today. I Felt Like Driving. Remembering. He Rocked Our World.

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Dick Clark Died Today. He Rocked Our World. I Felt Like Driving. Remembering. So, while we are forced to say goodbye to Dick today … we still have the opportunity to create a powerful present and an extraordinary future to live into. Let us rejoice in our being aliveness. Let us rejoice in our bounty and graces, our intellect, our health, our jobs, our children, our reach, our possibility.

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Dick Clark died today.  I felt like driving … remembering life.  I made a big looping route home today. I put the top down on my brand new 2006 Pontiac Solstice 2-Seater Convertible and I drove with my hair straight up, flying around over my head, with the radio blaring!  It was, indeed, a sanguine moment!

I drove through the reservation from Chaparral across to Alma School, South on Alma School to Baseline.  Picked up some papers. West on I-60 to the I-10 exchange.  I took the Baseline exit, driving west on Baseline hoping that the little store where the orange freezes were made fresh would still be open.

As I headed west I saw a lone “hold-out” to the old Baseline Japanese Flower Farms of years gone by.  It was kind of sad.  Instead of all the beautiful farm after farm of lovely flowers, there are strip malls, gated communities and apartment buildings lining the once vital tourist attraction. The South Mountain Flower Gardens that stretched along Baseline Road from 48th Street to 32nd Street are nothing but a memory in anyone old enough to remember.

Japanese Flower Gardens - Baseline Road, Phoenix, AZDuring the height of the Japanese Flower Garden’s glory days  (1950s to the 1970s)  the gardens were such an attraction that cars would drive along Baseline Road just to see their beauty and smell their fragrance.  The Japanese Flower Gardens were a landmark, a tourist draw and a tradition for many.  Now in the middle of suburbia is one flower shop, Mr. Nick Nakagawa’s Baseline Flowers.  It was sad.

Then I thought, “Hey, I am going to drive by my old house and see what’s up with that.”  It was horrendous.  When I saw what had happened to the house, I was certain my leaving to go to Cali in 2004 was the right decision.  The neighborhood was trashed even more than before, and house had these ugly oleanders for a hedge that looked quite dead.  The beautiful bougainvilleas on the side of the house completely vanished and were replaced with a tacky brown fence.  The beautiful orchid tree I panted remained.  There was no hint of a single surviving rose bush.  I was certain the house had served it purpose in my life and that leaving had served its purpose as well.

So back again driving west on Baseline, back to Dick Clark.  America’s Oldest Teenager.  How’d ya manage that, Dick?  What a great way to be remembered.  In all these years, I have never heard any “dirt” about Dick Clark.   I thought about him while listening to all the oldies and all the kind things that everyone was saying as they called in to the radio.  The sun was setting, it was cooling down.  I thought, this is the way a life should be remembered.   We won’t all be remembered on radio, TV or the internet … but what kind things will people say about us?

Have we lived our lives with purpose and meaning in ways that have impacted others for good?

Have we been responsible for the gifts and talents we’ve been given, have we used them for connectivity and community?

He rocked the world with music, fun, energy, and love.  

How are we rocking our world, and the world around us?

Then, I had a personal self-coaching moment, in which I said to myself (back again to how leaving for Cali served me), “We all have memories and behaviors that have served us at some time in some way in the past, and they really did work for our good at that time.  Maybe it was when we were five and we decided we’d never speak up again, so we wouldn’t get into trouble.  Or maybe we decided we would never be alone again because it was too scary.  But the truth is, that not every decision we have made is still valid, or necessary to protect us.  As thinking adults we GET to decide if never speaking up again is serving us today, or it being afraid of being alone is still serving us today.  The really cool and freeing thing is … we get to choose … we get to decide what works for us now.

And, for me, I know that leaving that house in 2004 and going to Cali and living in a hostel for 8 months, and re-careering in Cali served me.  I am a far better individual for it.  A far more enlightened person.   A far more global person.

So, while we are forced to say goodbye to Dick today … we still have the opportunity to create a powerful present and an extraordinary future to live into.  Let us rejoice in our being — our aliveness.  Let us rejoice in our bounty and graces, our intellect, our health, our jobs, our children, our reach, our possibility.

Live Long and Prosper, My Friends.

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I am always available for one-on-one business or personal coaching sessions in person, on the phone, via Skype, Google Talk, Google Voice or Yahoo Video Call. You can email me at rhonda@embraceyourbrilliance.co to set up a time for a session, or to ask a question.  Text to: 480-343-8700.

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April 13, 2012

Friday the 13th and 13 Adult Truths

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High-Performance-Coaching-Success-Strategies-coachingI just got a Facebook post from a friend of mine who sent me these.  They are worth sharing.  I altered them slightly — enjoy!

13 Adult Truths:

1. The first testicular guards, the “Cup” was used in Hockey in 1874 and the first helmet was used in 1974. This means it only took 100 years for a man to realize that his brain is also important.

2. I think part of a best friend’s job should be to immediately clear your computer history if you die.

3. Nothing sucks more than that moment during an argument, when you realize you’re wrong.

4. I love the sense of camaraderie when an entire line of cars team up to prevent a jerk from cutting in at the front. Stay strong, brothers and sisters!

5. Map quest needs to start their directions on #5. I know how to get out of my neighborhood.

6. Obituaries would be a lot more interesting if they told you how the person died.

7. I’m always slightly terrified when I exit out of Word and it asks me if I want to save any changes to my ten-page technical report that I swear I did not make any changes to.

8. Bad decisions make good stories.

9. Can we all just agree to ignore whatever comes after Blue Ray? I don’t want to have to restart my collection.

10. I keep some people’s phone numbers in my phone just so I know not answer when they call.

11. Kay Jewelers is wrong. I would bet on any given weekend, more kisses begin with Miller Lite than Kay.

12. How many times is it appropriate to say “What?” before you just nod and smile because you still didn’t hear or understand a word they said?

13. There is great need for a sarcasm font.

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I am always available for one-on-one business or personal coaching sessions in person, on the phone, via Skype, Google Talk, Google Voice or Yahoo Video Call. You can email me at rhonda@embraceyourbrilliance.co to set up a time for a session, or to ask a question.  Text to: 480-343-8700.

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March 8, 2012

International Women’s Day Celebration

International Women's Day 2012 - Great day to Embrace Your Brilliance
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It’s a great time to be alive.

It’s a great time to be a woman.

It’s a great time to dream, visualize and take ourselves to the next level as women.

Celebrate yourself today.